I don't have hate in my heart at all. I want to come back and have my ex wife back, all my friends, all the adulation I had as an elder and missionary.
So perhaps (at least in my case, because I can't speak for anyone else) you should ask yourself, "What would motivate me to leave all that I had behind?" I don't think I am happier since I left. But I can tell you that I can look at myself in the mirror, because when I realized what I was promoting was a lie, I at least was honest enough to accept the evidence and leave.
I just wanted to respond to your assertions; I have no way of knowing you at all or what motivated you to post what you did, but you have run into a group of broken hearted people, not hateful ones. You are the one who is actually hateful enough to come here and presume in the name of Jehovah that we are all dead. So at best, you have the burden of carrying around your own beliefs about who is going to be alive and dead, as you have been taught to believe. Thanks for letting us know that we are dead in your opinion. That means a lot, it really does....