Thanks for the support, but MY HUSBAND and THE BROTHERS WANT ME BACK

by AWAKE&WATCHING 46 Replies latest jw friends

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  AWAKE&WATCHING

  The hell with that. My husband came to my store today telling me that we are so close to the end now, he can tell by all the changes in meetings. You know the kool-aid edition and time frames etc. I told him that neither one of us were going to change our minds and it was time to let go and proceed with the divorce. No fighting just sadness.

  We talked for a little while and I hugged him at the door when he left. Then I took my wedding ring off as I walked back to the desk.

  When I left him 2 months ago you all were really there for me THANK YOU ALL. I am at peace and totally ready to move on. Just thought I'd give you an update.
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  Bumble Bee

  I am at peace and totally ready to move on.

  I happy for you A&W. Being at peace is so very important!

  Here's to you moving on!

  BB
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  BFD

  You have made some huge changes in your life recently and I am glad to see that you are keeping a positive attitude about it.

  It can't be easy. ((((A&W))))

  BFD
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  Gopher

  A&W, nice use of the word "but" to make us think you might go back. You're way past the JW paradigm.

  we are so close to the end now, he can tell by all the changes in meetings.

  So the publishing company rearranges a few of its publications, and then people think THAT is a sign of the end??? Very freaky. How gullible are the JW's getting to be these days?

  Each day you're moving one step farther from that nonsense (and the soon-to-be-ex).
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  nvrgnbk

  I was gonna say!

  You're going back?

  Phwew!

  Hang in there.
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  free2think

  Good for you A&W.

  Here's to new beginningd
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  Homerovah the Almighty

  Sorry to hear about your predicament, that must have been a very difficult situation to deal with for yourself, your a brave and courageous woman

  What your ex said when you met with him really brings to focus how psychologically off base and disturbed Jehovah Wittinesses are, it's sad when you think about it.

  Hoping you rebound quickly and something a little more positive happens in your life....take care
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  TheSilence

  I hope that if I ever need to be I can be as strong as you. I have no doubt there are wonderful things ahead in your life.

  Congratulations!

  Jackie
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  tula

  You may go through some rough spots...when you get lonesome you may look back on good times you had together and things you miss.

  When that happens, just get out and do something. Go to the park and feed the birds or squirrels. Something. Just don't let yourself slip back and dwell on what is past.

  Keep looking toward the future. You never know what's around the corner.

  And its damn sure not Armageddon now.

  What a lift off your shoulders that must be. No more fears, oppression, control, having to answer to someone for what you think and justify it..

  Thank goodness you got out with a little sanity left. And a great attitude that will carry you through.
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  Priest73

  Gosh. It's such a life changing thing to leave the WT, let alone a spouse. Personaly I know that BOTH are difficult, and you totally have my support. Please let me know if you need anything...