What Kind of Man Do you Women Want in a Relationship ?

by flipper 35 Replies latest jw friends

  • flipper
    flipper

    So ladies ? What is your take on this ? What are you looking for in a man, emotionally, physically, and mentally in a relationship ? Yeah, I know, all the good ones are taken ! Heard it before! Yadda, Yadda! I got lucky and found a good woman. She tells me I make her feel safe! Don't understand it, but hey I'll roll with it ! Are you looking for stability and humor, both? So to help these men out here get a clue, LOL! , please share what you like in a man you want a relationship with ! It will help men here understand women more , and relate to your needs! So like the men's thread I started, serious and comical replies are welcome ! Look forward to your replies, all of you ! Peace out to you, Mr. Flipper. Have fun with the thread!

  • momzcrazy
    momzcrazy

    Mr Flipper,

    I have been with my hubby since we were fetuses, 18 & 19. So I'll say what keeps me with him, how's that?

    He is a great dad, works hard, makes me laugh, makes me feel safe (that and the pistol he carries), he's cute and rides a Harley. He has never hit me, even when I was really asking for it. He's patient with my craziness. And I always finish 3 or 4 times before he does. And he has given me 4 babies even when the thought of it scared him to death.

    momzcrazy

  • serendipity
    serendipity

    Do you want the long list or short list?

    I want the intellectual, physical, emotional, spiritual connection. I want to feel safe, secure, cherished/loved, respected, amused, intellectually engaged and turned on. I want a dependable man who keeps a job and fulfills his responsibilities, and gets along with his family. I want us to have common values, some common goals and interests.

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    This brings up something a buddy and I were debating. At totally earth shattering question!

    Dental floss: Should you use it before or after you brush your teeth?

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    • Someone who is attractive to me. I don't care if others find him attractive. There needs to be some chemistry.
    • Fairly sane and balanced.
    • Can manage money and has a decent job.
    • Treats me and others with respect.
    • Has a sense of fun and adventure, within reason.
    • Being a good kisser wouldn't hurt. Not completely necessary though.
    • Someone I can laugh with.
    • Not shallow.
    • Crazy about me.
    • Likes my grandsons. At least tries to understand my children.
    • Loves music and good movies.
    • Not a macho, man's man, but a man in the sense of being grown up and confident in himself.
    • A kindred spirit.
    • Has empathy for others, especially the underdog.
  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    All that above and has to be hot I mean HOT in bed

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow
    All that above and has to be hot I mean HOT in bed

    Well, yeah, but this is so relative. One person may think a guy is hot in bed and the next one might not.

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    True one person's hot maybe not be another person's hot but personally for me I like a man who knows what he's doing in bed along with all that above.

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Good communicator. Not one of those guys who thinks men and women cannot communicate and treats women like children.

  • BFD
    BFD

    I am sure MrFlipper you don't mind if I answer...

    For me? First two times, for love.

    If there's a third, SHOW ME THE MONEY !

    Otherwise, I'll take care of myself.

    BFD

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