What Kind of Man Do you Women Want in a Relationship ? (page 2)

momzcrazy

Elsewhere,

I personally think you should floss first, brush second. That way you can brush away the stuff flossing got out.

momz

BIG D

you go mrs jones!!!!!!!!!

YOU KNOW WHY THEY CALL ME BIG D RIGHT?

Women like sex and it's normal to want sex. So to have sexual wants on a list of what is wanted in a man...it's normal. It's not the first thing on my list but it's an improtant thing, I can't pretend otherwise. I can't see myself in a relationship with a man if the sex is nonexistant or so bad that there's no point in doing it no matter how great we great along...that's just not going to happen.

carla

I had a man once that was nearly perfect. We were a perfect match. We were not rich nor did it matter. We could get through anything together. I knew he would protect me if needed just as I would lay down my life for him or anyone if ever needed. Our intimate life could be fun, romantic, plain sex for the sake of it, and then there was that true oneness poets speak of which I am unable to articulate well. That feeling of melding of mind, soul and body, where you don't even know who's leg is who's, who's stomach just gowled because there seems to be only one but yet two. An awesome event. An embarrassing moment in your long life together is gratefully forgotten by the other. Worry about when 'I'm gone' including financial considerations, well being, and happiness. Memories of early times together are important to relive, heck just remembering can be a compliment. Making your loved one a special person for a day does not take away your love of God or any other person in your life. The secret language of lovers! ahh, yes, the look that needs no words! nothing like it be it 'let' s get going, or 'just don't say anything !!' or 'remember your not supposed to know about that!' whatever, the secret language that couples and even very good friends develop is priceless. Knowing that your spouse/lover would not forsake you for anything. Spending time talking about nonsense or everything from world affairs to private affairs. Standing up for your loved one in public, complimenting your loved one. Not putting yourself in a compromising postion for the sake of your loved one, so no one could say 'did you see that he is married yet he went here with ......' or whatever. You just don't do that to someone you love. You don't put yourself in postions that could be construed as something else.

Then the jw's stepped in and stole his mind, body and soul. And he allowed it. Even encouraged it. Embraced it. Made a consious choice. He is not bad man. It's just that the jw's have changed him so radically he no longer holds the same values of life and love as he used to. Family is second, if that. His kids feel abandoned as does his wife often. I do at times think of buying a gun because I know that he would think twice before attempting to protect us if he ever had to. I was robbed once. If someone tried to harm my loved one I would have no problem whatsoever protecting my loved ones particularly my kids. He would, that split second of him thinking if jah would approve could cost a life, that time spent thinking if his OWN salvation was at risk would cost an innocent life. He has already put himself in compromising postions in my opinion. Had I done the same thing a few years ago he would have had a fit! Now, because it is about jah and the org it is acceptable. Not to me it isn't. He didn't even like people coming to our door! They could have been weirdo's you know! my, how things have changed.

sorry for the ramble.

flipper

MOMZCRAZY- Glad you are happy ! Hard working man. Makes you feel safe! Patient! Harley rider! Cool ! You finish 3 or 4 times before he does ? I assume you mean , orgasm ? That's healthy, wife and I are healthy too that way ! Good you have an experienced man that way, it is important. Glad you found your guy!

SERENDIPITY- Another lady wanting to feel safe, and cherished, loved, and respected ! Great ! Are you listening guys ! ? Resposible, has a job and good family skills. Great !

ELSEWHERE- I'd say floss before you brush your teeth. Then everything gets rinsed down the drain ! Ecch!

FLYING HIGH NOW- Attractive, chemistry, respect, a good communicator, laughter and humor is necessarry, confident with empathy for others! Really cool attributes to look for I would say also !

MRS. JONES- Am I to assume from your comment young lady, you have a" thing going on" with your guy ? Great, enjoy, be happy !

BFD- Yeah, love is the most important element BFD, thanks, good to hear from you ! But, you are right my bro, after a couple times, it's show me the money ! I hear ya bro ! Peace out to you and all you others, thanks ! Keep em' comin" Peace out, Mr. Flipper

noni1974

I like tall guys with mean on them.I like smart guys who make me laugh.I like guys who take an interest in me and pays attention to me.Not a ton of attention but to just ask me how my day went and to really listen goes a long way. Someone who thinks of me and shows it.Someone who likes animals.He has to have a good job and a place of his own.No living with Momma.Someone who loves me and accepts me for who I am.Someone who like to be affectionate and cuddle.Someone who wakes me up to kiss me goodbye when he leaves for work.Someone who doesn't talk all the way through my favorite TV shows.I want someone to fall head over heels for me and show it.It would also be great if he had a big family who accept me and love me too.

Satanus

Carla

A sad story. You are still w the man? Not that i'm suggesting a split, or anything.

S

John Doe

You women could save some time and effort by just saying "I want a man just like John Doe!" See how simple, easy, and accurate that is? ;-)

purplesofa

I want a man who knows who he is, knows what he wants, and knows how to get it.

One that can do that graciously, lovingly, convincingly, appreciatively and fairly.

purps

ronin1

I was a single parent for 15 years in the Org before I met my husband. What I prayed for in a husband was only 3 things: that he be kind & not abusive, a hard worker, and eventually become my best friend.

What I received in my husband was so much more.

He has been supportive in many ways.He is not only kind and a hard worker ( he installs fences), he is so talented in his occupation. He has an insight on persons and life in general, that I almost always seek his advice. He is funny and caring. What I wanted in a husband is that as we got older we would learn to adjust to one another emotionally, mentally, and intimately and that is what we both have learned to do. Have we had problems, yes!. But we have learned to address those problems and work them out to the best of our ability.

Being best friends is a must, especially when dealing with the org and loosing all your 'supposed' JW friends.

We have been married 13 years.

Ronin1

What Kind of Man Do you Women Want in a Relationship ?