Opray Winfreys handling of sexual child abuse~an example for Governing Body

by purplesofa 30 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    The Governing Body should be hanging their heads in shame watching how the events unfolded in South Africa at Oprah Winfrey's school. Her fearless way in meeting the problems head on, not covering up, calling in expert help, investigating, apologizing, getting all adults away from the campass so the girls could talk openly about what happened. Those girls came FIRST. Their well being, and healing came first.

    An example for all religions, schools, parents, leaders to follow.

    I applaud her for heart and the balls she has to back up her endeavers.

    Nov. 8, 2007, 9:34PM Rolls-Royce rights Oprah Winfrey rightly applies rich-country standards to victimized South African girls.

    Copyright 2007 Houston Chronicle

    From the moment Oprah Winfrey opened her girls' school in South Africa last winter, it was clear the production values would be all-American. She's been questioned for applying her lavish tastes to a facility for the poorest of the poor.

    Now that a schoolwide abuse scandal has surfaced, however, Winfrey's gold-standard reaction represents nothing more than what every single African girl needs and deserves.

    Winfrey's academy never meant to follow conventional development goals. This was a school for stars, girl leaders who thought big and could create national-level change.

    The school itself was a study in American-style spending and exhibitionism. Winfrey spent $47 million on the campus, showing in delirious public detail the whims of a 21st century pasha. She rejected stone tiles over and over because they didn't match the warm South African landscape. She personally ensured that school uniforms were comfortable — and tailored to flatter. The billionaire Winfrey even handpicked every fixture, bath towel and item of 200 thread count bed linen.

    It was easy to make fun of all this materialism, even denounce it. Forty-seven million dollars would have gone a long way in simple classrooms and running water for South Africa's other youngsters. The criticisms were trumped by two facts: It was Winfrey's money, and she was doing more for South Africans than most anyone else.

    Then last week, Winfrey's response to revelations of physical and sexual abuse at the school revealed a different, perhaps revolutionary, side to her Rolls-Royce expectations.

    Winfrey had hired the school's top management, relying on some of Africa's and America's best educators to hire teachers and dorm matrons. But she seems to have underestimated how different African concepts of accountability and authority are, failures that led to girls being sexually and physically abused for months before someone came to their aid.

    To her credit, Winfrey acknowledged the final fault was her own — and then she marshaled all the expertise, psychological counsel and legal help American dollars can buy.

    She alerted South African police, making sure they would welcome her own team of crack investigators. Trauma specialists, social workers and Winfrey herself descended on the school. A re-evaluation of the school's structure has begun.

    Most important of all, Winfrey vows to put the guilty behind bars. This is far from normal in South Africa, where sexual abuse of women in general, and children in particular, rages like the worst equatorial disease.

    South Africa endures one of the world's highest rates of rape: Last year, 55,000 sex assaults were reported — a fraction of those that actually occurred. A quarter of the country's teens are assaulted in school.

    But star power and financial muscle like Oprah Winfrey's cannot be ignored. A survivor herself of childhood rape and rural poverty, Winfrey should make it her mission to flood rich-world dollars and airtime on South Africa's quiet disaster.

  • TMS
    TMS

    Refreshing accountability . . . . . .

    The contrast with the Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses is off the charts. . . . stonewalling, "we're not an entity in California", two witnesses, J.R. Brown spin-doctoring, "the elders failed to follow our instructions", protect Jehovah's Name, the headship principle, Jehovah's "clean" people. . . . . .

    tms

  • AllTimeJeff
    AllTimeJeff

    My heart bleeds for those girls and all victims of disgusting pedophiles. Oprah's example is great. For one thing, Oprah realized that even though she does bear accountability because she does own the school, no one in their right mind would say or think that this is what she wanted. Who does? I don't believe that the GB of JW's or any religious entity endorses pedophilia.

    What makes this different is that Oprah cleaned house at the first sign of it. The children got help from people with resources, deep pockets. (think the GB can afford some therapy as opposed to settlement money?) The example is set. I guarantee that no one will try that at one of Oprah's schools ever.

    Oprah isn't culpable for this because she met it head on. The minute JW's and other religions bobbed, weaved, hid, denied, and then as a final insult try to legalize their way out of responsibility, they became accomplises. They did nothing to seperate themselves from the criminal pedophiles. No, I am sure the GB find the practice by itself disgusting personally. (They also think most sexual activity is disgusting...) For some reason, they have chosen to envelop themselves in a cloak of secrecy for one reason: $MONEY$

    Oprah would give her entire fortune to right this wrong. That is a big difference. Her actions give me hope.

  • Homerovah the Almighty
    Homerovah the Almighty

    Kind of shows the difference between what a kindhearted empathic proactive woman does in a situation like this, and how the ending results are always more effective

    in handling these situations. Compare that with the ineffective approach of which the JWS take or other mainstream religions for that matter and the difference becomes obvious and

    apparent. The religious approach to situations like this has always been hush, hush and keep that magical cloak of righteousness over the flock at all costs, the only problem that

    arises from that idea is that predators will come and hide underneath that cloak in a attempt to become invisible and this where the danger can arise. When leaders of a religious

    groups set out and try to market themselves as beacons of truth and righteousness like the jws to the public, there is in effect a marketing scheme going on.

    The damaging and dangerous result of all of this is that the Innocent are put in peril and truly presents an unsafe environment for children to be in.

    To be fair the society has just recently came out with a more proactive agenda with dealing with child abuse, just how effective this will be in the kingdom halls remains to been seen

    they did not come out and say to the elders to disregard the two witness rule in situations like this , so the new policy may just become redundant and ineffective in the end.

    Religion poisons everything doesn't .. who said that ?

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    Thank you for your comments

    purps

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    Oprah rocks, imo. She is a wonderful "spiritual" mover and shaker with absolute integrity!

    Terri

  • justhuman
    justhuman

    She is great, and she is doing a lot of work

  • llbh
    llbh

    Hi Purps, Enjoyed reading it. I just had a conversation with my wife about said subject with reference to recent revelations, and she said Jehovah will sort them out ,what a cop out. I seriously believe and have said that the wtbts attitude toward child abuse will haunt them. What a contrast to Oprah.

    llbh

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    Oprah may have splurged on her school. She may be introducing these girls into a whole new lifestyle. And is definitely dealing with the abuse issue head on.

    But in a country where sexual abuse isalmost the norm for children Oprah is making a clear statement not only to us on this side of the Atlantic but to the people in that country that children deserve more.

    Hopefully it sets a standard for the rest of the country (and many others) to follow in the years to come

  • LoverOfTruth
    LoverOfTruth

    I've always admired Oprah. She's one person I'd love to meet in person. A truly Beautiful Soul!

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