And how did that work out, Abandoned?
LOL!
I'm thinking all the time and energy invested and 3.00$ will get you a latte grande at Starbucks.
No kidding. That's why when I do something to help someone else, I decide up front that I'm considering it a loss. I don't expect to receive anything for it.
I did send one person here at JWD, someone who everyone here knows and loves, a bit of dough when I thought she was suffering. And you know what, she sent it back with a letter explaining that I had misunderstood her situation. She's a real class act. The cool part about this is that it happened at the same time I had my bank account seized by the hospital I owe for that suicide attempt I had a couple years ago. I couldn't afford it, but I did it because I thought it was the right thing to do and the money came back to me.
So, while it's frustrating to me when I do something kind to someone, whether online or in person, and they don't seem to really care, I do know that both here and in my real life, there are many, many people who do notice when you do something for them and do take the time to show appreciation.