Why would a loving God subject people to trials designed to waste their whole lives while trying to settle the issue with a devil? Those trials have nothing to do with the person's potential, since anyone is going to fail if they are tried with things they were not designed for. Don't believe me? What if someone were to test your computer by running it under salt water with added chemicals designed to corrode the innards quickly as a test to see if it was fit to be run in a normal environment? Or, if I had a tropical plant intended for display in a hot room, and I wanted to test its fitness for that by putting it in the deep freezer for its whole life? None of that would be fair.
And neither is God. Putting a person who thrives on the opposite sex in a situation where he is totally deprived of it or deliberately conditioning him to expect rejection every time is not my idea of testing a person effectively any more than putting the hothouse plant in the deep freeze to test it would be. All it will do is permanently ruin the tested object so it's no longer suitable for what it was intended for. And yet God insists on continuing to do just that, and then He expects praise and glory.
And then He blames Satan for it. I have news for anyone that falls for that specious argument. Satan is not capable of putting people through problems that last their whole lives, but Jehovah is. If it were Satan, then Jehovah could have fixed it long before it had the chance to do any damage. Promising to undo the damage is useless, too, since a plant that was killed in the freezer cannot be resurrected, and neither is the person that has been rendered useless by lifelong being cast out from the opposite sex able to regain any hope of success after being fully conditioned to expect failure. However, Satan is capable of causing momentary incidents that fall outside this pattern, and even attempt to repair the situation.
Anyone who has lived a life where most or all of it is pure suffering should rightfully blame God, even if there were instances where it seemed like things were going to turn. What that means is that Satan is attempting to improve your lot in life, and he could well be sincere (it would be a slap in God's face if it were to succeed). But you can bet your bottom dollar that God, the Tyrant He is, is going to step in before it can bear fruitage and fxxx it up on you. Hey, He had been doing that all your damn life; what is going to make Him change this time?