for the encouraging WT article you printed for me. It also referenced an article about getting help from the elders in your congregation. This is the very first thing it says:
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w835/1p.8DrinkingProblems—WhatCantheEldersDo?***This raises a very important question: What can elders do to help their spiritual brothers and sisters who are having a problem with drinking?
Clearly, the Scriptures do not in any way condone drunkenness. In particular do Christian overseers have the responsibility to see to it that confirmed, unrepentant drunkards are not tolerated in the Christian congregation; they are to be disfellowshipped. (1 Corinthians 5:11-13; Galatians 5:19-21)
I hope to overcome this problem that has caused you so much grief. Some do not however, like James Little. I really think I will beat it, but how much do you think I would want to get help from, or be associated with any Christian congregation that has the power to judge me as a confirmed, unrepentant drunkard? And have instructions in place that instruct my family and friends to totally shun me, not even speaking to me unless I come back into the fold? That is risking too much for me, but I hope you and others will help me, and that I never lose you. I love you....oompa The article goes on to help our shoe salesmen Elders (not that theres anything wrong with that), to become clinical professionals about alcohol abuse in just one page so they will know when start the big shun!:
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aboutdisfellowshipping? It boils down to this: What is the person’s attitude toward drinking? Does he, despite your patient but firm efforts to break through to reality, seem intent on continuing his drinking? In this connection, it is of interest to note what the book AlcoholicsAnonymous advises employers of alcoholics:"If you are sure your man does not want to stop, he may as well be discharged . . . Firing such an individual may prove a blessing to him. It may be just the jolt he needs." Similarly, if the individual’s attitude requires that he be disfellowshipped to keep the congregation clean, this may at the same time be just the "jolt" he needs.
Rather, try to understand the nature of alcoholism, what it is and what it does to people. Keep in mind that you may have to break down the wall of denial that the alcoholic has built up around himself. You must get him to see that he has a drinking problem and that he needs help. He will need your ongoing help and support. (But won't get any once you have kicked his ass to the curb!!!!!!!!!!)................................oompa.....sign me up for this professional program with only lifelong risks required!!!