Frequent Fader- I , as JK stated used to be a psycho magnet too ! All the ladies who had daddy issues would find me . You know, the type of woman who would not or could not open up emotionally about their deepest inner thoughts , but could open up sexually very well. So, I ended up with half a relationship , a few things in common, but not enough to make it last as a solid secure relationship ! Believe me, I say this from years of experience, if you ignore the differences now, they will come up later to bite you in the a$$ !. Some differences are adaptable, fixable,and easy to adjust to. Major differences like moral values , good manners, politeness, treating others with respect , rudeness , the way you were raised, cultural differences are harder to adjust to in others. A lot of these things people underestimate they won't cause a problem, but they really can if ignored.
Fortunately, I tried E-Harmony.com, it worked for my wife and I as we have lots in common. Enough differences to make it interesting, however lots of compatibility to make it work. I am of the opinion if you are not compatible in the important areas, move on. The other person will be happier, and so will you. Life is too short to go through a $hitty relationship. Gawd knows, I learned the hard way. But Mrs. Flipper is my dream queen. I could not imagine being without her True love is the answer, not pretend love ! Never settle !
