lol... well I didn't do porn but I did talk to an elder on the phone just one time. I admitted over the phone what I had done. So apparently that was enough. Seems sort of odd really since I never met with anyone just that one phone call. So I guess you could say I didn't try to defend myself as in being a liar like some do to get out of that. I just told the truth. Now that I talk to others who knew about the situation apparently the elders who were involved with my situation said they would have never disfellowshipped me if they had known the whole story.
Lmao,most people don't get Df'ed for doin porn,but other than hiding cams in a person's house,or setting up a sting,how else could they get the proof they need for a forni Df'ing?
I thought they try and get you to come to the hall first for a meeting in the backroom,then if you refuse,they automatically do what they want. As for people lying to get out of it,i remember a sister,when i was younger,who was in some kind of mess involving other elders wives. They all had an equal share from what i was to understand,however,they lied/cried to get out of it,whereas she told the truth about what happened,as a result..she was the only one who got DF'ed,which i always thought was messed up,cause she was one of the only ones i liked in there at the time,and the others got to go scot free without even so much as a public reproof.