"Afraid of getting caught doing something wrong,by a JW"..???..LOL!!....The next JW that sticks their nose into my life..Will be doing alot of business with the "Tooth Fairy".......OUTLAW
Are Any Here Afraid of "Getting Caught" Doing Something "Wrong" By a JW?
by minimus 36 Replies latest jw friends
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mentalclearness
Yes..As much as I hate to admit it....I still live in my old congos territory so if I'm smoking a cigarette walking down the street I get a little worried. Not enough to turn off my cigarette though.
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5go
Not doing, saying something wrong.
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Frequent_Fader_Miles
Not particularly concerned. Zzzzzzzzzz .......
We even decorated the house for Christmas, with a wreath on the door and everything! If I'm questioned ... "hubby did it".
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hillbilly
the most major lifestyle change I had after leaving was filling 10 hours of meeting time I gained back. I have not done much aof any thing dince leaving that I didnt do while in... besides they have not moral authourity over me so why would I care If "they" caught me?
~Hill
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nomoreguilt
I answer to NO MAN! Just my wifey......................Love her.
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changeling
I hate myself for it, but yes, I am.
If they overheard me wishing someone "Happy Holidays" or any number of perfectly innocent and harmless things. I could be DF'd and have to suffer the loss of my daughter and grandchild.
I could not bear the pain.
changeling
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NewYork44M
I don't live where anyone - expecially elders - know me. And besides I do nothing that cant be done in a public library.
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llbh
I used to feel like Changeling about being caught here posting, now i do not care if i get caught posting here.
I have very close family also who are JW's a wife and daughter. I told my wife that if the elders came after me for whatever reason- they do not have one btw.- that i would not contest it and they would have to deal with it, as my love for them is without such preconditions.
Then again if i were in Changeling's position I may feel differently.
Would I worry if I got doing something "they" consider wrong - no they are no longer my Judges.
llbh
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metaspy
I am afraid.
but I am afraid for the reason of not wanting confrontation.
So I may be a little cautious, but I still do what I want.