Are Any Here Afraid of "Getting Caught" Doing Something "Wrong" By a JW?

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  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    I look ogver my shoulder but am not "afraid" if that makes sense

  • WTWizard
    WTWizard

    What I don't want is for a run-in to become a 6 hour hounding session. It would likely be an attempt to hold me up with the goal of getting me back to the boasting sessions, which is why I tend to brush the witlesses off. If they catch me buying Christmas decorations, they would likely make a scene that I would merely maneuver to get them kicked out of the store for undermining their business. As I see it, any Christmas decorations I walk out with is between me and the store, not any of the witlesses.

    Yes, I put up as many lights as I could in the windows. I would rather be caught by a witless at home that I could let waste their field circus time trying to get in, than get caught being witless-like by the world after the pedophile mess got exposed just before Thanksgiving.

  • KenseiShimonzu
    KenseiShimonzu

    That's an oddly ironic question minimus..reason being just last night i went to the grocery store,and when i came back out to my car...i noticed that parked right next to me,was a guy from my hall,he only found me cause i happened to be driving the only car that he knows i have.

    I couldn't be sure if it was him,or the wife(long story)...so i left the spot and waited to see who came out..it was him,the backstory to him is,before i left,he was trying to befriend me because he thought i was going to confiscate his wife..seems now that he hasn't seen me at the hall in awhile,he wanted to try and catch a glimpse of me,so he could run back and whisper in car groups,about bad i looked,and about how the world didn't look like"it's been good to me",etc,etc,etc

    No..when they see me again,It'll be on MY terms..so they can see just how GOOD i've been doing since i left them...Thinking about it on the way home though..almost made me wanna make a comeback in there,just to take his woman away from him..maybe it would push him over the edge,and into my world..where i'd promptly proceed to whip his ass to welcome him to "my side of the tracks"..I still have my old instincts so i can usually spot dubs before they see me..they know though..even if they did see me do something..it's better "left in the hands of God" than to get involved...even Elders,who claim to have Holy Spirit,who profess to believe that "Angels protect them",don't wanna put that theory to the test by trying me..that's why they don't interfere with my fade,it's a mutual thing:P

  • wha happened?
    wha happened?

    not really concerned. I just don't want to deal with the inane conversation

  • truthsetsonefree
    truthsetsonefree

    One good thing about being da'd is that I can't get in trouble. I must confess to hiding some of my "worldly" behaviors from JW family and coworkers though. I'm not quite sure why.

    Isaac

  • troubled mind
    troubled mind

    Sometimes ......I faded two yrs. ago and still live in the same area . Small town were I see former "friends" all the time .

    At first I was afraid of being seen going into a church or buying xmas gifts .Those fears are slowly disappearing. We decorated some on the inside of our house for Christmas , but still not outside ...maybe next year . We still have two adult children that are not completely out and I don't want to do anything to push them back into the KH. Patience and subtleness seems to be the best route for us .

    It has helped to ease my fears because no one seems to care what we do . I think as long as we don't go back to the KH they are not going to pursue us .

  • free2beme
    free2beme

    I would love to be "Caught" this many years later. I would start laughing so hard though, that I could not pull it off with a straight face though for long.

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