Hey Mincan, et al:
I think you've been misinformed: the view from here is fine. But I understand since I've always hated my appearance. At 60 years old I've decided to get a grip and settle for what is. The good news is that I look 59!
All the best to you and all the other dear posters who spoke so eloquently of their pain. I feel it - I really do ...
CoCo