- Honest: "If he says he'll call, be there or not date other women, he calls, is there and remains faithful." --Ashlee (an absolute must)
- Supportive: "He's always pointing out the good things about me but he loves me for my faults too." --Julie (he has to love my quirks)
- Funny: "He MUST have a good sense of humor!" --jmcgrath (has to make me laugh every day)
- Caring: "He must remember to kiss you throughout the day." --watsonmich (even if he doesn't realize it's foreplay)
- Sensitive: "Sensitivity is key, but not to the point of being wimpy." --jmcgrath ( has to be a man's man with a big heart)
- Loving: "He should be able to kiss away all his woman's pains and still manage to send chills down her spine when he does." --Charity ( tender, loving and electric !)
- Goal Oriented: "He should know what he wants and go for it. For example, my perfect man wanted me and got me!" --sephra (doesn't need me to tell him what he wants to be fulfilled, just wants me to support his choices)
- Handsome: "Good looking is important, inside as well as out!" --jmcgrath (it doesn't matter if anyone else thinks he's hot, I have to think he's hot)
- In touch with his feminine side: "He will watch Ally McBeal with me and not make sarcastic remarks." --watsonmich (I've got my girlfriends for chick flicks)
- Financially Stable: "He doesn't have to be rich, just financially responsible." --jmcgrath
- "He should be fun, exciting and somewhat spontaneous." --Mary(YES, YES and YES)
- Independent: "He should take care of himself, mentally, physically and spiritually" --mcgrath
(not in a God of the Bible way)