Scum:
Welcome, welcome, welcome. You have no idea how refreshing it is to have a Witness who is open minded visiting this forum! The majority that come onto this board can be extremely condescending and downright mean sometimes. It is a pleasure having you here so please stick around.
As a whole, the people in the Jehovah's Witness religion are loving and kind. I've know many in my life that were truly good people. However, I've noticed that this varied from congregation to congregation. Unfortunately, my congregation was nothing like yours. People were rarely loving and caring. They were too busy policing their brothers and sisters to catch them in wrongdoing to ever give each other a helping hand. At one point, I went through a very long depression and wasn't making it to many meetings. Not once did somebody stop by to see me. Just the opposite happened. People stopped associating with me because I wasn't regular. And this didn't just happen to me, several people got this type of treatment. I could go on for hours with stories.
Also, I just can't agree with the idea that there is only one true religion. After leaving the JW religion I met many many wonderful people from all different faiths and walks of life. It is hard for me to believe that god is going to kill those that aren't JWs. You have the Catholic religion, Buddists, Muslims, etc., religions that date back thousands of years and Jehovah's Witnesses say that their religion is the ONLY true religion? A religion that started at the end of the 1800s and was a branch of the seventh day adventists? I find that very hard to believe.
Also, please don't get offended if the people here get snippy on occasion. I think that people here get defensive because they've been emotionally kicked around. Because we have different beliefs than the Witnesses we are treated like leppers. Our families and friends have left us because we are unique individuals, with different ideas than theirs. There is nothing in this world as cruel and manipulative as that.
AMarie