I am really sorry about whats happened and her diagnosis.
This may sound really cynical but isn't this a "worldly organisation" that is granting the money? This same "worldly organisation" that all witnesses are told to avoid like the plague? Has the "true organisation" granted her the opportunity to go to bethel to grant her dying wish? I think not. Doesn't this speak volumes of what they are really like?
Would much rather be associated with the kindness of the people who have organised a little relief for her in her last days, than those who say that we are living in the last days and will no doubt repeatedly telling her when she wakes up she will be in paradise.
Sorry to sound so bitter but I lost my mum last year after she had served as a witness for nearly 60 years. When my father died 22 years ago all every body could say to my mum was that it won't be long and soon she would be with him again cos Armageddon was just round the corner, and this is what kept her going until she died. I feel bitter that none of her expectations came true and she died dissapointed. My heart breaks every time I think about it