Please tell us.....WHAT IS THE RIGHT WAY?
Here is a good point of departure:
Matthew 28:19: Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them inthe name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
The Didache:
Chapter 7. Concerning Baptism. And concerning baptism, baptize this way: Having first said all these things, baptize into the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, in living water. But if you have no living water, baptize into other water; and if you cannot do so in cold water, do so in warm. But if you have neither, pour out water three times upon the head into the name of Father and Son and Holy Spirit. But before the baptism let the baptizer fast, and the baptized, and whoever else can; but you shall order the baptized to fast one or two days before.
http://www.earlychristianwritings.com/text/didache-roberts.html
I agree wiith this minimal framework:
The Essential Parts
If you want the baptism to meet the requirements for as many churches as possible, it must have the following three features:
- You must have the intention of performing a valid baptism.
- For example, if children are playing church or if you perform a baptism as part of a play, or you are horsing around in a swimming pool, it is not a valid baptism.
- Water must be involved.
- Immersion is valid in all churches, but since this is an emergency, that is probably not practical. Instead, pour water on the candidate’s head three times. (This instruction goes back to the first-century document called the Didache, or the Teaching of the Twelve Apostles.) You must use the formula in Matthew 28:19.
- You must say to the candidate, “I baptize you in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” You can add any additional wording that you like, but it’s probably best to stick to the bare essentials. If you substitute other formulas or if you baptize only in Jesus’ name, the baptism may be valid in some churches, but in most churches, it won’t be valid.
- In Matthew 28:19, Jesus gives us the words to say when we baptize in His name .
http://www.kencollins.com/how-04.htm