In my Social Psychology class, we are studying a chapter on Persuasion. Here is an interesting excerpt from our study book, "Social Psychology: Unraveling the Mystery" by Douglas Kenrick, Steven Neuberg, and Robert Cialdini, page 171. Please tell me if you think it applies to JWs, ex-JWs, and this board in general.
p. 170, "Done Deals"
"The Bible says that there is a time for all things, "a time to every purpose under heaven" The goal of accuracy is not excused from this rule. For example, Peter Gollwitzer and his coworkers have shown that there is a particular time when people are most motivated to be accurate - when they are deciding what to feel, believe, or do. After that decision is made, however, the desire to see things as they really are can give way to the desire to get on with the now-made decision (Gollwitzer, Heckhausen, and Steller, 1990)
"Unwelcome Information"
Under certain circumstances, people choose to believe only what they want to believe, usually what fits with their self-interests and personal preferences (Johnson & Eagly, 1989; Kunda, 1990). This tendency can affect persuasion. For example, people see information that contradicts what they believe as less valid than information that supports these beliefs; as a result, such evidence is less persuasive (Lord, Ross, and Lepper, 1979; Pyszczynski, Greenberg, and Holt, 1985). Other research has revealed how this process works. People who receive persuasive information that fits with their personal interests, preferences, and positions feel content and typically don't expend the cognitive effort needed to look for flaws. However, those who encounter information that doesn't fit become upset and search it for weaknesses they can use to form counterarguments (Giner-Sorolla & Chaiken, 1997; Liberman & Chaiken, 1992; Munro and Ditto, 1997).
Maybe this is why JWs, after being baptized and committed to it, tend to latch onto information that supports their views ( the Pro-JW mental health article just posted), and discredits contrary info ("Jehovah's Witnesses and Mental Illness")
It would also explain why ex-JWs, after leaving the organization, are committed to separation from it, latch onto information that supports their views ("Suicide" threads and Jehovah's Witnesses and Mental Illness"), and discredit contrary info (the Pro-JW mental health article just posted).
That would also explain why this forum is mostly negative toward JW experience; and the pro-JW sites are mostly positive toward JW experience.
But here's my BIG QUESTION:
If BOTH JWs and ex-JWs (and people as a whole) after being committed to a goal, view information that supports them as more valid, and info that discredits them as less valid, then how can we EVER be sure we are looking at things accurately? How can we ever be sure we are making a wise and logical decision?
It sounds like, when it comes down to it, it's not so much about accuracy as it is about personal desire. In other words, what a person really WANTS to do and WANTS to believe. Whether JW or ex-JW, once a person takes a stand, they tend to seek out information and people who support that stand.
For someone who really wants to take an honest, unbiased look at things, this information is . . . er, well, "troubling." I'd like to know somebody's thoughts on it.