Thank you Flipper, I am sure they won't tell me what I want to hear, but I will say what I need too!
I had deleted my post.. but shall repost the part deleted................
I was recently given the number for them from a good friend here on the board, and am going to make my own call to them very soon.
I have first hand knowledge of a situation where the elders did not make a report to the police, nor warn the congregation of an abuser. My younger sister went to the Elders way back in 1978/79, there was an elders meeting where the abuser did confess and profess repentance to them. Their decision was to allow this person to remain a member with no punishment, but to simply stay away from my sister. There was no police report made, and when the gossip started circulating around the hall, the family, including himself said it was all lies. When my sisters future mother in law spoke out and said, No, its not lies, she was actually reproved and although a very faithful sister, was not allowed to go out in service or answer in the meetings for six months. Its a shame the victims were punished and not the abuser.
This is how they handle things, and I still want an answer from them on this as well as other answers on other issues.
Thank you again Flipper for making the call you made!
LTF