Forbidden Love?

by ZeroZen 52 Replies latest social relationships

  • ZeroZen
    ZeroZen

    I like a woman who is a JW and I’m not; I know she has the same feelings for me as I do for her. I would say I’m Spiritual but not religious I would not take the bible word as literal truth like JW do. Do we have any chance of a relationship together? Would this mean she is weak in her beliefs if she is thinking of dating me, and maybe able to "Change"? She seems very nice and intelligent but I wonder how much she believes in the "truth" would there be a way to tell? I hate bringing up religion it can be such a turn off to some people when starting a relationship. What would be the best way to bring this up? I have not had to think about religion when starting a relationship before but I have heard some bad things about JWs. What else should I know?

  • dinah
    dinah

    A lotta people feel kinda comfortable leaving, but as soon as hard times strike will go running back. If she was raised in, it'll be harder.

  • ZeroZen
    ZeroZen

    I know she was raised in and her parents have a KH on her farm I guess her dad is the preacher.

  • dinah
    dinah

    Okay, do some more research on the religion and get back to us.

  • llbh
    llbh

    I used to be JW, like many here; my wife still is a JW. It is very hard being the mate of a JW, you will always be second at best in decisions she makes.

    My advice would be to very careful of what you let yourself in for as it can hard to get out a relationship when you are in.

    Regards

    David

  • carla
    carla

    "What else should I know? " --- It's a dangerous and deadly cult. Do your homework.

  • ZeroZen
    ZeroZen

    I have heard that it is a cult and has cult like ideas. I just wonder why is she looking outside for a relationship if she is not suppose to date people in the outside world? Is it hard for young JW women to find a date that is true JW?

  • dinah
  • AWAKE&WATCHING
    AWAKE&WATCHING

    RUN - RUN LIKE THE WIND

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    why is she looking outside for a relationship if she is not suppose to date people in the outside world?'

    The animal nature comes through, for some of them. Or, pasture is greener outside. Or, maybe for excitment. Don't let it fool you. She is like a shy octopus; at first sign of 'danger', she will jump back into her cage. You would be better off dating a crackhead.

    S

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