Hi Gopher
So you say mankind's abandonment by God is a sign he's letting us stand on our own feet, independently of him? That's interesting.
In a way, yes - although I wouldn't call it abandonment - when I moved out of my parents house and into a place of my own, they hadn't abandoned me - it was more a case of "over to you and good luck, we're here for support if you need us" (NB - NOT 'we're here to bail you out every time you screw up'!!)
So then, would prayer be out of scope now -- because God wants us to be on our own? What about the Bible verses that emphasize leaning on him, praying to him, not making a decision without considering/consulting him?
1. I don't depend that much on prayer - what is prayer anyway?! For me, it's communication, yes I can ask for stuff but I'm not always going to get it, and I don't know why at the time, and yes that pees me off! - But I wouldn't expect a loving parent to give me everything I ask for, that would make me a spoilt brat unable to look after myself (and God would be a sky daddy, which I already said is not my view of Him). This is where I merge slightly with non-theistic views - often we have the ability to answer our own prayers, be that on individual or collective basis - for example, there IS enough food on this planet to feed everyone - and yet we say why isn't God doing something about all the starving people! I believe there is already a cure for cancer - and probably many other diseases - but corporate greed is getting in the way.
2. Whether we like it or not we have to reap consequences too of our mistakes - there are large areas of desert today because humans in the past cut down all the trees (amongst other things!). Antibiotic resistant bacteria are flourishing because we have been careless about antibiotic use. So true when you realy think about it are the sayings that we reap what we sow, and the sins of the fathers are visited upon the next generations...
3. The same goes for making decisions - if we're independent, we ultimately make our own. I might ask God for guidance but He doesn't (usually!) decide for me (in saying this, we'll just have to agree - I sense His presence and you don't, run with me!)
Finally, I doubt whether anyone could ever adequately address the original question - there are natural phenomena which cause great suffering such as earthquakes, volcanoes etc - and yet if these occurences were not in place, this planet could not exist as it is - so what would we rather have in it's place? Nothing at all maybe?
"Absurd!" says Qohelet "Everything is utterly absurd!"