Unclepenn
I was trying to be as breif as possible without going into arguements to back up my beliefs.
I also said: 'The other spiritual force seems to be what some people call a 'higher self'. This seems to be the origin of the unconditional love that some experience, which they mistake for god. It is continuoussly available to help, guide etc'
Does that make you feel a little less sad for me? I used to have all the answers. They ended up not fitting reality. Up to this point, what i wrote seems to match reality. It is subject to change.
In my world view, all is ultimately saved, being back w its source. All the sufferings will be just experiences in the end, if there is one. In your christian view, i would imagine that many end up suffering undescribably for eternity, or at least lost to annihalation. So, in which view is more love shown. Keep in mind that reincarnation is part of my view. Also if you love something you set it free. In my view, freedom is total.
Of course it will confuse you because you haven't gone the path i have. My belief system is open; yours is likely closed. By that i mean, that for you doctrines must fit inside the framework of the theology based on the bible and/or your church. If it does it for you, good.
SS