Personal Experience I've Never Shared - I Hope it Helps Some Here !

by flipper 74 Replies latest jw friends

  • flipper
    flipper

    IMA APOSTATE- Yeah- I think these guys were into a psycho " male dominance thing " like you say. But that freak you were talking about ! Holy christ ! Playing dominance games with teenagers and sticking broom handles up their butts ? That is sick and twisted ! His lady knew of this- and still married him ? She must be as twisted as him ! I guess she'll learn a new meaning of " anal" from him ! Jeez.

    NINJA- I know you'd stand by me to fight Ninja- I trust you on that mate ! You could count on the same from me ! Peace out, Mr. Flipper

  • potentialJWconvertswife
    potentialJWconvertswife

    Mr. Flipper- Glad you're past all this now. I know you are, otherwise you couldn't have related the story in such detail. Kudos to you for putting it out there. I hope it's been cathartic for you, it seems to have helped some of the others with similar experiences. That type of behavior is inexcusable. Young boys or teens I could see doing that sort of thing, because they're always trying to do stupid stuff to each other. But adult grown men??? I just don't know where that could have come from, except, as others have alluded, they are secretly gay or have those type tendencies. Even the drunks I know wouldn't engage in such antics- #1, because you don't do stuff like that to your friends and #2, it does look gay. And the guys I know would rather die than doing anything that looked even remotely homosexual!! -Potential

  • flipper
    flipper

    POTENTIAL JW CONVERTS WIFE- Thanks for the kind words. I truly am over it. It is strange when grown men act that way - I think it's very juvenile behavior ! And perverted. I am glad I posted it as I think it brought out some issues for other people like you said. Might help them deal with it more. It was a nice therapy for me really. Thanks again, Peace out, Mr. Flipper

  • Quandry
    Quandry

    I am sorry this happened to you.

    Why do people like to humiliate others? Do they feel better about themselves when they are through? I just don't get it

    I know that it still bothers you. You could not relate it in such detail if it did not. I know I'd never "get over" something like this.

    I hope you do feel better after sharing this with us.....go now,....have a nice drink and enjoy your evening.....

  • JK666
    JK666

    Flip,

    So sorry that this happened to you. If me and my Indiana JW buddies would have found out at the time, we would have come and helped you beat them to a bloody pulp.

    JK

  • Barbie Doll
    Barbie Doll

    I can understand how you felt, I was embarrassed when I was in the children home many times, the Teenagers would do things to me.

    They are not Friends, It is not funny. That to me is a big Deal and that is abuse.

    Barbie Doll

  • flipper
    flipper

    QUANDRY- I think people humiliate others because they are insecure with themselves. By acting dominant over others it makes them feel less insecure about their phobias ! It's not right - but it's how they cope with their own inadequacy I believe. Not someone you'd want to be friends with though ! Yeah- I had a good drink when I wrote this - a few Moosehead beers ! LOL! I am fine though, really . Thanks for the kind thoughts.

    JK- Hey buddy, I know you and your boys from Indiana would have stood up in my behalf if I had known you in the 1980's ! I would have been honored !

    BARBIE DOLL- I agree it's not funny - and it was a form of abuse ! I'm sorry you were treated badly at the childrens home when you were young ! Hope you are doing well now

  • Quirky1
    Quirky1

    Flip - You can go ahead and get over it but.....I'll be pissed for ya! And If I ever see them scum bags I'll give them a peice of your mind.

  • flipper
    flipper

    QUIRKY- Thanks for the support ! You know I'd be there for you if you needed it too ! Peace out, Mr. Flipper

  • beksbks
    beksbks

    So Flip, you want I should kick some ass? You got address's??

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