Hi,
I just wanted share that I am graduating from Columbia University next week with an undergraduate degree in Sociology at the age of 39. See, it's never too late, for anyone out there considering attending college.
My partner and around 10 of my closest friends will be there to cheer me on, which is overshadowing any disappointment that my family will not be there, or as of today, yet to acknowledge this accomplishment that means so much to me (I sent grad announcements a few weeks ago along with an invite). In all honestly, they live across the country so it is an expensive trip.
Anyway, despite the student loans, hard work and sacrifices, it has been well worth it. I remember back in H.S in the late 1980s, I begged my parents to let me attend college, but of course, the end was coming and it was a waste of time. I sucked it up and enrolled as a regular pioneer, while washing dishes in the evenings and weekends...I was miserable - long days in the field service, long nights in the back of a restaurant kitchen (except meeting nights of course). A week after pioneer school, I moved East, worked in mindless jobs but eventually got an opportunity and worked my up the corporate "ladder." Even though I had attained some measure of financial and professional success, I reached a salary ceiling because of not having a college degree, plus I had always felt inferior, EVEN though there was no reason to. So 7 years ago, I enrolled in a Community College that embarked me on an amazing journey, which is now ending at Columbia. I can't believe it. I want to add that school is more than just learning, the entire experience is enhanced if you get involved in student organizations and meet people. The networking aspect opens so many doors.
I just wanted to share what I've learned or how it has changed me....
- Eliminated or reduced personal sentiments of racial and other prejudices
- Most social issues/attitudes repeat themselves over time (no we are not that special..this has already be argued before LOL)
- Improved my writing, analytical skills
- Importance of examining context, evidence and observation before making conclusions
- College graduates are more likely to have higher salaries (contrary to what WT anti-education literature says)
- Education is more than to learn specific skills
- Religion has many loving and universal qualities, people make it hateful and divisive (I'm still an atheist tho)
- Camus, Kafka, Mill, Shakespeare, Foucault, Nietzsche, Weber Rule...need I same more? LOL
For those who have attended/completed college, please share how the experience has changed you!!!!
Regards,
NYCkid