The hounders are once again up my arse
Just fart them out with a bang!
by cognac 27 Replies latest jw friends
The hounders are once again up my arse
Just fart them out with a bang!
my advice: let them get rolling calling you a naughty meeting non-attender. then explain that you're missing meetings because you have a yellow discharge with odor from your vagina. Dip a tampon in something meeting that description and show NO hand it to them. All your issues will be solved. They'll never bother you again.
I have a JW friend who is one of my closest friends...she knows I dont go..it breaks her heart... (damn, too bad she is married, I might think about returning if she were free..heh heh). We had lunch today, and then her husband joined us....and his control is amazing....unhealthy in fact.... I bring this up because she keeps holding out hope that I will return to the meetings...
My reply, and you can use it: "If I came back, its hard to keep my mouth shut, so its better I stay away for now.." ,,,very open ended... without being specific...
I also told my friend.."do you think Jehovah has given up on me? As long as he hasnt given up, dont you give up." (hard to keep a straight face saying it...I kinda feel bad....but I dont like hurting her any more than she is....she is one of the genuine dubs in the Borg...and she has doubts.....just afraid to express them...
hang in their cognac...
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I agree with some of the other posters.
They only have as much control as you allow them to have. If you do not want to meet, don't feel like you have to!
This will go on and on..Until you tell them,not to bother you again.............OUTLAW
I don't allow JW's into my home, and they know it, too. I come out to talk to them while closing the door behind me. It may be rude, but my ritual tools are not for their eyes.
The hounders have no right to barge in like that and expect you to drop everything just like that. I would put some porn on TV, play some Satanic music or some rap, and make things as unpleasant as possible for them if they do decide to show up and stay. All they can do is disfellowship you, and if you no longer want to be a witless, that is hardly a punishment.
What they do with your husband is another matter. Once you have made up your mind, they are going to work on him. Chances are, they will meet with him and try to bust up the marriage. They will probably try to get him to reject you, act cold toward you, or even a separation for "absolute spiritual endangerment". However, if they play that card, you still have one big advantage. If you do not commit adultery or remarry, and he wants another partner, he will be setting himself up to get disfellowshipped for "adultery". Otherwise, he will be getting set up for a lifelong course of celibacy, which I don't think most men like. Of the two, he is the one that is going to be more in a pickle.
Tell them your azz is exit only.