Something you may not know about me ....

by troubled mind 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • troubled mind
    troubled mind

    Is that I am unreasonably terrified of Dentists .......I am talking panic attack ready to happen kind of fear ....and well this weekend one of my molars broke . I just made an appointment to see the Doctor at 3pm . It has been so long since my last visit they didn't even have any information current on me ....I think it has been at least seven yrs. I know , I know

    I can bear the broken tooth almost better than I can the impending doom of sitting in the dentists chair . I hate being this way .....I know it is unreasonable , but the anxiety fills me just thinking about walking in that office . All my kids had good dental care , but even then I had over whelming desire to stand by the doorway ready to flee .

    Any sympathizers out there ?

    Why can't they just drug me at the door ? Do they have any knew methods to knock you out during procedures ?

  • dinah
    dinah

    If they know you have that much anxiety, they will usually give you a couple of Valium or something like that.

    I used to work for several dentists. They really want you to be comfortable, not terrified.

    They can do conscious sedation. It's expensive but sometimes your insurance will pay for it.

  • snowbird
    snowbird

    I have the same fear and have to be given a sedative beforehand.

    You definitely have my sympathy.

    Sylvia

  • PEC
    PEC

    (((((tm)))))

    They need to pump gas into the waiting room for you. Best of luck to you.

    Philip

  • Quirky1
    Quirky1

    Man, I love going to the dentist! It is like having itch scratched that you couldn't reach.

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers

    Have you been able to isolate the reason for the panic? I used to HATE going to the dentist due to a really bad gag reflex. An older lady who is a dental hygenist suggested that I find a spot to stare at while my teeth are being cleaned or fixed. I did it, and it really works!

  • hillbilly
    hillbilly

    I hate needles. Other than that ... I dont think a denstist has ever hurt me. I dont like the noise. The grinding and drilling echos in my head.

    Dentists that use my chest for a tool tray piss me off...I went to one for a root canal who did that... like a auto mechanic tossin wrenches on the floor...

    Hill

  • troubled mind
    troubled mind

    Gas in the waiting room YES , yes Please . Valium would be good too.How about both .....

    I am considering having my husband come along just so I don't bolt .

    Seriously I have been sitting here thinking this morning why I am so paranoid about Dentists . I actually had a thought that made sense ...imagine that ..lol .

    When I was a child my mom was a witness my dad was in the military . Our medical treatments were all at Naval hospitals you never saw the same doctor twice just whoever was there . I had alot of times were nurses had to actually sit on me to give me shots ect. Several had to hold me down to get stitches . So those left some pretty negative impressions . Then when my dad went back into civilian life we moved close to his parents (who disliked the fact my mom was a commie witness ,in my grandfathers words )

    My mom would warn me all the time that when the Great Tribulation started my grandfather would no doubt take us kids from her, and we would need to stay loyal to Jehovah on our own .....I was five or six at this time . I had great separation anxiety at that age (I wonder why )

    At this same time I was preparing to start school so had the customary Doctor/Dentist visits . The Dentist we went to had huge hands a scary bushy beard and loomed over my small mouth . Of course I was scared and cried ...he had no patience for this so made threats he would make my mom leave if I didn't stop crying . I don't remember what else he said other than it was threatening and all I could think of was someone was taking my MOM away . Now I realize it was worse than it should have been because no doubt I was thinking about her earlier warnings of being taken away .

    Isn't that screwed up ? I had not really put all that together before now . No wonder I never let her out of my sight when I was little .

  • Quirky1
    Quirky1

    Hillbilly, there may be a reason for this?

    The grinding and drilling echos in my head.

  • MsMcDucket
    MsMcDucket

    I'm, definitely, in there with you! I need to make an appointment. But, I think that they'll have to drag me in there kicking and screaming! As of late, I hate to leave the house period!

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