It's much more complex than I would have ever thought.
Somewhere in the midst of a heated discussion about the fairness of treatment of Blacks in the US, my oldest friend let out with "we did them a favor putting them on slave ships" (more heated discussion revealed that what he's getting at with that ridiculous statement is that American Blacks are doing better now than Africans).
We calmed down a little, and as I was giving him a ride home, we got to "so, who ya gonna vote for?". Obama, was both of ours' reply.
My friend (ex friend?) really would like to see the Black community thrive. He is also quite racist in many ways, both to Blacks and Hispanics.
It makes me ponder if I really want to spend any more social time with him, after that comment. It's just such a cavalier and unjust way of looking at humanity.