I've been going out with this girl for 9 months. So far, our relationship has worked so well, except for the past few weeks. I've seen a lot of personality flaws.
She constantly has flashbacks towards her past traumas. I can understand the past traumas and I'm willing to work with them but when they interfere with our relationship, she says "they're my secrets and secrets should be left in the past" and they never get solved.
She's not very thrifty. I can make 50 bucks last maybe 3 weeks. She can't make 50 bucks last 4 hours.
She's very jealous. I've heard from friends that she's sent rude e-mails to them. I had a female friend I met at one of my Autism support groups. We hit it off and instantly, she sent that female friend a nasty e-mail. She claimed not to have sent it, but it was in her exact writing style.
She's not willing to try out new things. If she sees something new, novel and can make our lives easier, she goes into a pissy mood. It's like pulling teeth with her.
She's clueless on world affairs. I had to explain economics to her. She got mad and told me to stop talking. When I'm over at her house, I always have to bring my PDA with me or else I'll never be caught up with the news.
The only pluses I see with this relationship is how I have somebody who can be my eyes and ears socially. She's not even that good at that because she's been so sheltered growing up and she's managed to make me look weak in front of a bunch of gangbangers on the bus.
When she gets angry, she gets violent. When I told her I was going to break up with her, she tried to kick me when I tried to get my stuff from my bag. I almost snapped and fought back.
So I'm at a crossroads. I'm thinking it might be time to part ways. I think I fell out of love with her and she probably isn't going to change. Am I right for thinking so?
...OUTLAW