Darlin: You need to level with HER. Put all your cards on the table and let the chips fall where they may. You DO have it in you. You CAN handle it. It may end your marriage, or it may make it stronger. You'll never know till you take the plunge.But whatever happens, you CAN and WILL survive.
FYI: You're not suppossed to eat food that's been left out all night! I'm betting your next thread will be: "Help, oompa has a bellyache!"
changeling :)