Name them.
Do you have children? If so, did you have them merely to have someone inferior around to obey and honor you? Or did you have them for a more sublime reason? For relationship? For the love which can only exist in relation to another? For the love that can only exist in the sacrifice and service towards another? How could one experience love without another to share love?
This is how my "toddler's mind" tries to conceive it.
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