I am serving in an appointed position. If you read my previous posts you will see.
An old girlfriend is accusing me of "grinding" which is Porneia according to the Society, and a disfellowshipping offense. We did sort of be alone and mess around, like wrestling I guess. No grinding. But she and I met alone several times. Actually she wanted to really cross the line, and I refused.
The elders have scheduled meetings with me. What should I admit to? I already told the other elders there was no "porneia" but they are scheduling meetings with her there to face me.
Should I deny everything? They already asked, "Were you alone? When? Where? Where did you sit? Did you lay on her? Were you in the car alone? I know this bunch, they love to have hours of meetings where they ask a million questions.
If I say I am not saying anything at all to any questions, that makes me look guilty.
My family is freaking out, since the word got out from this girl, who is jealous I am dating a new girl now. She never had any issues with me and never told the elders anything until we had not seen each other for months, and parted as friends, and then she heard about my girlfriend. Now she is angry.
Any input would be appreciated, I am not liking this situation. I have to stay in the organization for now if I can, to help family and friends.
Bonafide