When a guy doesn't text (sms) you back...

by Newborn 46 Replies latest jw friends

  • is there help out there
    is there help out there

    Why don`t you pick up the phone and call him, Like to wish him a merry Xmax etc.

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Here's a novel idea: find someone else to go out with to take your mind off him.

  • KW13
    KW13

    well if your at the stage where it all hangs on SMS responses, my advice is relax and see where it goes. No Hounding.

  • BurnTheShips
    BurnTheShips
    When a guy doesn't text (sms) you back...

    There is a new cologne called "Flame".

    BTS

  • mtsgrad
    mtsgrad

    Newborn

    As an expert in relationships I would so no text no interest (at this point). Meet him for a coffee in the new year.

    mtsgrad

  • Brother Apostate
    Brother Apostate

    Could be.

    Perhaps he has fat fingers.

    Or, he would rather talk to you on the phone or in person.

    BA- Texting is popular but very impersonal, wastes time, and it is easy to misconstrue meaning.

    PS- A call gives one an opportunity to talk and is natural, texting is unnatural and impersonal.

  • Highlander
    Highlander

    I ignore text messages sent from my wife. If she can't exert enough energy to call me and have a normal conversation, then I won't exert any energy to send her a reply text. I think text messages are rude and impersonal. I ignore all that aren't business related.

    That being said, I think this guy is just putting you on ice. There's nothing better than ignoring a woman and then watching her go crazy trying to get the guy's attention. He may be seeing other women. Since it's the holidays, he may have picked his favorite girlfriend to take home to meet the family.

    Maybe he is no longer interested in you? Maybe he's busy? My advice is to put him on ice. Ignore him. Make him go crazy trying to get your attention. If he wants you, he'll chase you. Wait it out, and eventually he'll chase you, or eventually you'll find yourself moving on to other guys. Don't worry too much and by all means, enjoy the holidays!

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow
    Maybe he is no longer interested in you? Maybe he's busy? My advice is to put him on ice. Ignore him. Make him go crazy trying to get your attention. If he wants you, he'll chase you. Wait it out, and eventually he'll chase you, or eventually you'll find yourself moving on to other guys. Don't worry too much and by all means, enjoy the holidays!

    I'm old fashioned when it comes to chasing. Men should chase, not women. When men do it, it seems fun and playful, when women do it, it just seems desperate.

  • free2beme
    free2beme

    Speaking from a man's point of view here. You are coming across very insecure and for most men, that is a turn off.

  • Witness 007
    Witness 007

    Newborn 1. He has big fingers and can't text.......2. He's playing hard to get......3. He thinks "no" means "yes."

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