I am sorry, but I just find it so hard to see a bunch of former Witnesses doing the whole born again thing. Acting in a way that is just trading one line of thought, for another. Basically, one time you said you were waiting for the "new system" and now you pulled that thought out and replaced it with the "waiting for heaven" comment. It all just seems like those ones are just so unhappy or unwilling to make the most of this life, that they keep waiting for the next one to come. Perhaps this life is all there is though, why waste it thinking something better is on the other side; just like the Witnesses did. I hear comments like "There is a mansion waiting for me" and I know this is a comment coming from the Christian belief in heaven and I wonder, "Do you really think the same laws of physics govern a spiritual realm, the same as it does the physical?" I just do not get these "I found Jesus" comments either. I made fun of those comments as a Witness, for good reason and when I left and found my own Pagan roots. I did not suddenly leave my former core thinking and see some value in such things.
I have to ask, do people who go in to this type of thinking and religion; after leaving the Witnesses. Do this out of just filling a hole in your life, that suddenly became a void you were comfortable with? Are you at an age in life, in which you have fewer years ahead, then behind and just want to have some sort of hope and feel there is not enough years left to make it overly complicated? I just do not get it and to be honest, I have asked this question on this board many times over the years and the answers just make no sense. Just because you change the comment, and the phrase, does not mean you improved in anyway. It just means you know how to update your way of speaking. Your mind is still doing the same thing, which is not accepting this life for the jewel it is and making the most of it.
If I have learned anything from my exit from the religion and time in this life, it is that when people are dying, they would do anything for one more moment and one more day. Yet those same people waste so much time, in the life that lead up to their final breath, doing things like what I talked about here. The final joke, is that it is a faith that requires no proof. Believe and you are fine, group together with people who feel the same and you feel less ridiculous or guilty, in the end ... who knows, but do not think that just because you painted the white wall with color paint, the white paint ever really disappeared. It is just a peal away from being the same thing.