QUIETLY LEAVING- Good point you make about us men drawing out the " mystery " in a woman. I agree that a man should have a masculine and feminine side. If he's in touch with both he will come off as secure to his partner - and he'll reach her emotions better.
why thanku Mr flipper - insecure men are just as nice though imo. All I'm saying is we all have to negotiate with the unsuspected, unsuspecting foreigners within and without.