So sorry, i know it's hurtful, my mil won't even knock at our door to see her grandkids, she's never seen the youngest and she lives in the same small town, my hubby now supports me and she does'nt even text him now, it's all so nuts. Funny thing is she took my d'fd sis in law out clothes shopping for her kid - guess i was never in favor to begin with! Sending you a big hug, you so don't deserve this treatmentx