It's been all good, like leaving an abusive parent/husband. I wish I had done it sooner.
What Were Your Consequences For Leaving The "Truth"???
by minimus 51 Replies latest jw friends
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minimus
The vast majority of people have no idea what a JW on his way out will have to deal with. That's why some can't leave, they'd go nuts.
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Finally-Free
I've become a demonized celebrator of birthdays, eater of chocolate bunnies, and erector of Christmas trees. I lost a wife too.
Wait a minute! These are all good things!
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Homerovah the Almighty
Happiness !
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OUTLAW
It`s not the outside world that makes you suffer,or trys to ruin your life when you leave the WBT$.....It`s the WTB$ and thier Brain Dead Cult,the Jehovah`s Witness`s that try to punish you for leaving.....The outside world is a paradise,compared to the Shit Hole the WBT$ provides..........................................OUTLAW
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passwordprotected
It can be rough. We've lost many friends, but made many more. We've lost family members and we know that our JW family are listening to - and at times spreading - lies about us.
But it's worth it.
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wobble
I am HAPPY now,though witlesses would not believe that possible,I am at peace with God,Jesus is my Lord and friend,and I have only lost what was not worth keeping,I view what Ihave left as "a lot of refuse"
My only regret is that i did not wake up earlier.
Love
Wobble
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ninja
hardly any.....signed .....the teflon apostate
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happpyexjw
I agree with the posters who say they regret not leaving sooner. It was not easy since I also lost virtually all of my "friends" and most of my family, although my kids eventually left themselves and we are all friends now. It was scary at first because I was very naive about the real world and did not have an education, but I made a couple of good new friends, (one of whom I later married) who encouraged me and helped me out. Looking back I have no regrets and believe that the difficulties helped me to grow up. I am much happier and better balanced now than I ever was as a JW.
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Magwitch
- Abandoned by abusive elder husband
- gained full custody of two daughters
- met love of my life 3 years ago
- have great sex
- no longer addicted to pain killers
- no longer drink
- travel lots
- have more money
- have more time
- gained back relationship with apostate siblings
- have interesting friends
- lost boring witness friends