Oh, Yesidid~One thing I wanted to share with you. In my parish, one of my fellow parishioners is a defrocked priest who sexually abused a child 20 years ago. He was not only a priest but also a Canon lawyer. He was defrocked and stripped of his right to practice law, since his conduct was a felony. He has been given permission to actively participate in our parish because neither his victim nor the victim's family lives anywhere nearby. He is in the choir with me and sits on a committee with me.
Much as I abhor his past conduct, I acknowledge that he is a sinner as am I and that no sin is too big for Our Lord. I have to accept that he is honestly repentent and has done his penance before God. It is my duty to show forgiveness as a Christian and accept him into my parish.
Although I'm not so stupid as to leave him alone with my children, no matter how repentent he may be. He's still human and could fall again.
St. Ann