Wow, they just came to my door for the first time in

by beksbks 48 Replies latest jw friends

  • AllTimeJeff
    AllTimeJeff
    the propaganda of this site is very strongly anti-witness so your dealing with a lot of intense confliction and reality that is we are just ordinary people who worship our God Jehovah through his son Jesus christ

    Reinaa, this site is a free for all, full of individuals in various stages of development, and often late development thanks to the thinly veiled control agenda of the Governing Body. I understand that in dealing with individuals who use their own minds to think in their own ways, that this is foreign to you.

    However, I used to believe exactly as you do now. I used to believe that I was worshipping Jehovah. And I, as most do here, love and miss my old friends.

    This thread isn't about defending JW's. It shouldn't be. Beks had a strong reaction and put that out there for us to chew on, and hopefully, to support her as well. What Beks said about being shaken is not propaganda, it is as real as the chair you are sitting in. Feelings are not propaganda, the dogma that JW's teach that allows them to treat non JW's with disdain is.

  • beksbks
    beksbks

    Ohh Outlaw! I've been out for over 20 years!

    I've lived in Silicon Valley for the last 4 years, and I never had a single visit. We just bought a house in a lovely neighborhood in a beautiful little town on the edge of the Bay Area. There is a KH about 2 blocks away, I pass it every time I leave my house. I never ever fail to look over at it. See cars and calculate the day and time, which meeting it must be. Nutz.

    B, I figure if they are happy and secure, why would I want to harm that? If I meet someone who says they are thinking about studying, that's a different story!

  • beksbks
    beksbks
    so your dealing with a lot of intense confliction

    It's not confliction Reniaa. It's a Pavlovian response.

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    A young jw lady comes and visits my neighbor two doors down in my fourplex. She was just here Saturday and I fought the urge to throw pieces of the DC invite on the walkway she would have to use to leave. I've decided instead to fully inform my neighbor about the truth about the lie. It also wouldn't hurt to let me neighbor know that there would be no more birthday parties like the one she just gave on Sunday if she were to become a jw.

    Josie

  • ex-nj-jw
    ex-nj-jw
    the propaganda of this site is very strongly anti-witness so your dealing with a lot of intense confliction and reality that is we are just ordinary people who worship our God Jehovah through his son Jesus christ

    nj

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Beksbks..I`ve been out longer..Even after 20yrs,JW`s coming to my door bothered me..Then one day it did`nt..It did`nt matter anymore..........It takes a very long time to get comfortable with that..But..The time will come.......... Reniaa..Read AllTimeJeff`s post to you..Then read it again and again.......We have active JW`s on this site..Some have been here for a very long time..Longer than me......You can ignore the harm the WBT$ has caused Jehovah`s Witness`s..You do it all the time........The WBT$ has Harmed or Killed,more Jehovah`s Witness`s than any other organization on earth..Through it`s insane Rules and Policies.......Rules and Policies that don`t affect you,because you cherry pick WBT$ Rules and Policies that you will follow.......If you are a Jehovah`s Witness,you are a very weak one......You are looked down upon by the very organization you promote so strongly on this board,the WBT$......Being a WBT$ Cheerleader does not make you a good Jehovah`s Witness..Following every WBT$ Rule and Policy does..You don`t do that..........Your not a real Jehovah`s Witness.....We were.....Your not a Jehovah`s Witness and your not an X-Jehovah`s Witness..........You have no status in our world or WBT$ World.....Your just a visitor either way................................OUTLAW

  • dinah
    dinah

    Beks, I can sympathize. A sweet little old lady came by here and invited me to the Memorial. I couldn't get rid of her fast enough. She had no idea who I was, so I didn't say anything.

    But yeah, I was upset for the rest of the day.

  • cameo-d
    cameo-d

    Beks: "I figure if they are happy and secure, why would I want to harm that? If I meet someone who says they are thinking about studying, that's a different story!"

    I just want to thank all of you on this site for helping me make a hard decision in the past.

    When I was first reading and found out about this "truth" and what it really amounted to...my first instinct was that I had to warn a JW friend of mine. I wanted to tell them about the UN deception and other things I was finding out.

    As I read more and more, I began to realize that it is only when someone takes the initiative themselves that they will want to know more about the validity of what they have been told.

    Anything I would say could put up a barrier.

    But the worst part of all of it, is that for older people, it could be a shock and trauma they may not recover from.

    There are some people who are better off not knowing the truth about the truth. Especially when they are facing their own mortality, or are in great distress about losing a loved one. Sometimes, it is best to let them cling to the lie if it gives them some peace. I would not want to take that from them and cause them greater distress.

    Sometimes, the truth is hard to bear. It is only for those who are strong enough to handle it. And once you do know the truth about 'the truth', then you feel a responsibility to do what you can to expose it.

    It is the manner of exposing it that we must struggle with. Sometimes the most we can do is to make sure that the information is available to those who want to know. But trying to convince people on an individual basis by confrontation rarely seems to work.

    Simon has done a great work in being so dedicated to give us this venue. I am sure he is weary, but carries on somehow.

    The contributers here who have given so generously of their time and wise counsel are very much appreciated. I noticed in some of the profiles, some people here have over 500 pages of threads they have responded to. That's a lot of posts, a lot of time, and most of all a lot of heart and love for each other to do this. You have all made the info available for anyone who really wants to know the truth.

    Sorry, Beks, I did not mean to hijack...but the responses on this thread just made me want to tell you all this.

    I just wonder if there is a response we can give people at the door that will lead them here?

  • Heaven
    Heaven

    I usually tell them that I get the magazines from my father as he is a Witness. Then I launch into a story about how my baptized mother smoked herself into the grave and I just didn't understand how she could do that as a JW. They usually leave after that... without leaving the magazines.

  • Mastodon
    Mastodon

    They've knocked on our door several times, but never when I'm there. My wife just ignores the door when they come. I for one would like the chance to, kindly, send them on their way.

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