............is the strange thing that a whole range of people here tell me what I believe, what I have to believe, and also have the liberty of stating that if a person does not 100 % believe what THEY tell one has to believe - then such a person is not a "real" JW!
Now, the whole range of critisism centres around the fact that WBTS in detail decides what a person has to believe, think, do etc., and it follows that a JW is but a puppet of the random choices or decisions of the GB and WBTS.
Then some people emerge, who state that they do not feel that is how their reality is; they tell they try to follow God and Jesus, not men, and that they are capable of doing dome thinking for themselves.
Oh no! state the critics - it just ain't so! You are not a REAL JW! WE know what you believe, how you must act, think etc. - and how you state that your feelings about this is - simply is not true! WE know better than you how you feel about these matters! You lie, you CANNOT feel like that, because you are a JW! And if you feel like that, you are NOT a JW!
In short, we know that either you are a liar, or you are misinformed, or you are plain stupid, or you do not know the REAL truth about the JW / WBTS, or you don't know yourself - because WE know you and your daily life better than you do.
Strange. Very strange. Surprising. Annoying. And it shows that a meaningful discussion 99 % certain is not possible, because these other people KEEP TELLING ME WHAT I REALLY MEAN, although I mean otherwise. It is SO annoying to be told what I believe, when I in fact know that I do NOT believe what I am told that I believe.
Annoying. And surprising that stereotypes like this exist on a board that per se should be non-stereotypic.
Are you saying that Jehovah's Witnesses are free to draw their own conclusions?
Are you saying that if you insisted on expressing an opinion in opposition to the expressed opinion of the Governing Body, you wouldn't be reproved and eventually ejected from the congregation?
I don't doubt that there are many JWs who secretly believe a range of things which are opposite to the teachings of the WBTS. The important word here is secretly because you know as well as I do that people are not allowed to express dissenting opinions in the Christian Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses. Frankly, trying to prove otherwise to a bunch of ex JWs is about as pointless as trying to convince an eskimo that snow is made of sand.