lol once you start picking and choosing what to follow biblically you end up with a god of your own making...
Freedom to do what you want while believing in God is satans speech, if you look at Pauls and Jesus's words, Paul is just the practical application of what Jesus taught.
Jesus was very strict but he showed love around this.
he used hyperboles to show how important some things were, he said pluck out your own eye rather than think on fornication etc.
We have no choice to face the practical application of expressing our faith and Paul is good for this because he faced many similar issues on how we can as imperfect people still apply the laws of Jehovah in our lifes.
Look at the jews would you say God was strict with them? they are another example of practical application the freedom given to christians was not to backslide but to apply principle in many new things that will be thrown at us a christians.
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