what was the worst advice you were ever given

by rockmehardplace 42 Replies latest jw friends

  • rockmehardplace
    rockmehardplace

    i was that one way to increase my field service time for me and my wife was by standing at a truck stop and hand out tapes to truckers in the early mornings. this is the same lot that is frequented by drug dealers and hookers.

    another time, while studying, i said i did not understand the blood issue. i was told to pray about it and it would eventually make sense. at my baptism questions, i still had not understood the blood issue, and again i was told to pray about it and it would make sense one day but to go ahead and get baptized. i still do not understand the logic of abstaining from blood.

    and for a friend of mine, he had an alcohol problem. i recommended he seek doctors help. he told me that two elders at that time told him to read more and increase personal study and that would help take the need for drinking away.

  • Mastodon
    Mastodon

    "leave it in Jehovah's hands..."

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  • Scully
    Scully

    That my depression would get better, not by following my doctor's advice to take an antidepressant and look after myself as you might otherwise expect, but ONLY if I attended all the meetings and was regular in Field Service™.

    That, and not to disclose to the doctor treating my depression that I was a JW and all the various and sundry demands guilt trips that lifestyle imposed upon me.

  • Finally-Free
    Finally-Free

    The worst advice came from my mom. She suggested I "study" with the JWs.

    W

  • Nosferatu
    Nosferatu

    "Obedience Protects You"

    I'm still trying to figure out what it protected me from, other than having a good childhood.

  • Amha·’aret
    Amha·’aret
    and for a friend of mine, he had an alcohol problem. i recommended he seek doctors help. he told me that two elders at that time told him to read more and increase personal study and that would help take the need for drinking away.

    Pray, study, meetings, service

    That is their answer for everything - no matter what the problem or the severity of it.

  • ninja
    ninja

    to go stroke that sneezing pig in a sombrero.............atchoo

  • vikesgirl101
    vikesgirl101

    That there were no good men outside the org. and that I had married the best that I could get.

  • leavingwt
    leavingwt
    That is their answer for everything - no matter what the problem or the severity of it.

    Yes. WT Leaders are "Symptom Warriors".

    Randy Watters has a great article (somewhere) on Free Minds on this topic.

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