Just gotta know what the definition of "is" is, eh? The deal with the society is that they just love to change the rules while the game is being played. Yes, and sometimes changing the way a word is defined or used. Constantly - and if you do not immediately adapt, you are living in the "old light".
It is a simple fact of witness life that you can be unceremoniosly disfellowshipped for publicly promoting ideas from their own recent past that they have arbitrarily changed.
And this is the essence of a dangerous control cult.