Lisa,
Longsuffering is an ability to shrug off what is bad and carry on in spite of it. It is defined like this:
AV-longsuffering 12, patience 2; 14
1) patience, endurance, constancy, steadfastness, perseverance
2) patience, forbearance, longsuffering, slowness in avenging wrongs
Nowhere does any text say that it means "patiently waiting on Jehovah." Where you to reveal a truth to them they will abuse scripture and abuse you by rejecting such truth and blame you for running ahead. And they will blame it on God as if they had an inside track on such truth and not you and God did not reveal it to them yet. This is a disgusting way of handling such matters.
We do not accept one fruit and ignore the others like faith. We need all the fruits to maintain faith and to avoid what Paul said in these same verses. Gal 5:16 This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. 17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. 18 But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. So where did the WT get their view? They made it up to keep you quiet which breakes your faith in God and Christ and directs it to them. Now never mind that Paul was saying these things to Galatian Christians that were still keeping the law and he was correcting their thinking. Yes Christians keeping the Law covenant as their means of salvation which is an apostasy by Watchtower standards the last time I checked and a lack of faith in Christ for such Galatians. Yet they were not disfellowhipped were they? This demonstrated to them that they did not have faith. Keeping this law by them was a lack of faith in God's promises to man. I realized over 30 years ago that I was not getting the truth from them since I could identify their false teachings and they wanted no part of it. The meaning of Faith is given like this in Strong's
AV-faith 239, assurance 1, believe + 1537 1, belief 1, them that believe 1, fidelity 1; 244
1) conviction of the truth of anything, belief; in the NT of a conviction or belief respecting man’s relationship to God and divine things, generally with the included idea of trust and holy fervour born of faith and joined with it
1a) relating to God
1a1) the conviction that God exists and is the creator and ruler of all things, the provider and bestower of eternal salvation through Christ
1b) relating to Christ
1b1) a strong and welcome conviction or belief that Jesus is the Messiah, through whom we obtain eternal salvation in the kingdom of God
1c) the religious beliefs of Christians
1d) belief with the predominate idea of trust (or confidence) whether in God or in Christ, springing from faith in the same
2) fidelity, faithfulness
2a) the character of one who can be relied on
It was not God's way or Christ's way for the Watchtower but their way of the highway.
Joseph