leftchica........i feel your pain
it could be the only real reason he "likes being a jw" is that he dreads the thought of losing his family, and perhaps his friends....losing your entire social structure when you have been raised in is a frightening and painful reality he faces.....especially your parents and children which is what i now face............the inner turmoil he may feel over this will likely get worse if he really comes to believe they are just a fraudulent religion
as far as changes to the bible which was my deal breaker issue, just know that all 237 uses of the name jehovah are not valid in the greek scriptures....many of them are not even quotes from the hebrew scriptures which is what they claim....just check the insight book under heading of jehoavh, use in the greek scriptures and you will see there is not a single ancient manuscript that contains the divine name.........but they dont care about that, they love the name so much and so want to disprove the trinity teaching that they add the name jehovah wherever they feel like and that includes all 12 times in revelation where not a single use is a hebrew scripture quote, and it is in direction violation of the powerful scripture found at revelation 22:18,19 which forbids the changing of the scrolls of revelation.....when i found out they had actually CHANGED the bible, my piled high shelf of doubts came crashing down..........marriage life has been tough ever since.....my wife is still hardcore jw and will likely never wake up..........oompa