May you have peace!
I'm sorry, but I sincerely don't understand (I really don't "run" that deep, dear one - ). I think your post said it wonderfully (though, please note, that even if I didn't I most assuredly wouldn't have said so to you)... and had I seen it before I posted I most probably would have refrained (no need to be redundant). But I didn't... and so posted what I did.
If anyone (including you) takes offense at what I posted... I would say, first, my sincere apologies, as there there was absolutely NO offense intended; second, I would refer such one (including you) to the words of Ecclesiaste 7:9, and ask that they (and you) not be in such a hurry to take offense as, again, none was intended, and finally, as Paul is reported to have said:
"Well, then, have I become your enemy... because I tell you the TRUTH?" Galatians 4:16
Take it for what it's worth, dear YKnot and, again peace to you!
YOUR servant, and a slave of Christ,
SA