Is internet dating for losers?

by Newborn 82 Replies latest jw friends

  • sacolton
    sacolton

    creativhoney, looks like you dated some real bell ends (Brit slang). I'll play video games with you (can you handle LEFT 4 DEAD?), we'll eat Thai until the sun comes up and I'll never again use "Jolly Good" or "Tally Ho Pip Pip" around you.

    God Save The Queen and all that.

  • creativhoney
    creativhoney

    bell ends indeed. hmm. think we completed left4dead I am being a real saddo in the Warcraft universe right now :D

  • sacolton
    sacolton

    Left 4 Dead 2 comes out this month. All new cast and weapons galore!

    Did you ever see the movie BEN X?

    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0953318/

  • PSacramento
    PSacramento

    Most people date quite a few people before they find the right person, no reason to think that online dating is going to work any different.

    Sure some are lucky to find the right person sooner rather than later, but typically that is not the case.

    I dated and had at least 3 serious ( more than a year) relationships before I found my wife when I was 28.

    The older you get though, the harder it will be to find the right person.

    Not only is the "dating pool" less but as we get older the things that we don't care that much about when we were younger (just looking to get laid and have some fun) start to carry more weight in our decision making.

    Of course some of us are just assholes and don't deserve to have anyone decent in our lives and shoudl just stick to meaningless sex.

  • creativhoney
    creativhoney

    lol. meaningless sex is crap. Ive tried it.

  • PSacramento
    PSacramento

    True,

    But for some, its all they can handle. Some people are no good in relationships, I know at least 2 guys like that.

  • PSacramento
    PSacramento

    The thing with reltionships is that they are about giving of oneself, of being selfless, of devoting our lives to another person and as we get older that just becomes harder and harder, even more harder is to find someone to receprocate that.

  • creativhoney
    creativhoney

    yes my ex boyfriend was.. I love you but 'Idont want a relationship' scared the hell out of him. - if he wasnt in one he couldnt cheat..

  • Leprechaun
    Leprechaun

    I have had much success on the internet with dating I finally found my favorite bootie.

    Even on the internet there are games played, more so I think, most people pretend to be something they are not, so with that being said if you approach the internet dating experience knowing this you will be way ahead. Hootie hoo

  • zagor
    zagor

    not neccessarily but if you go for it, don't drag it for too long before meeting the person, not being able to touch the person while passion, emotions, and reoccuring doubts are racing through your mind, eventually you are likely to burn out before you even meet them and then you'll just want out of it because of accumulated effect of unnatural feelings about the situation. I don't think its for me personally but IF it ever happens again, I'm likely to board next buss or whatever rather than let it running for months before doing anything about it.
    But the truth is, you can meet great people online, and often over the net you get to know deeper part of them that would not surface through normal flirting and screwing around in person. Good luck

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