Gary Neal, my fellow unbeliever, you wrote:
it is not her I should be upset with, it is the machine that is the Watchtower Society.
Yes, man. She is not to blame. As a kid, I was told that men don't cry. Well, it has cost me an ocean of tears to really understand just that. My witness is not to blame. Neither is yours, neither is Oniichan here. They all think they are doing the right thing. It's the set of rules, and a few men who know very well what they are doing, that are to blame.
Nekoreichan, we were missing something. As a woman, you would have it worse than Gary Neal or any unbelieving male. You'd be the woman and he would expect you to be in submission to what he said. Again, it would not be him to blame, but the system of "thought" that leads perfectly good people to act that way.