I wish the secretaries in my area were as organized as you were Snakes...
In my area the congregation lines have changed several times since I left. They changed so much that I don't even know the congregations anymore. Imagine my surprise when I was informed of what congregation I was in. I guess my card had been floating around from congregation to congregation. Now the new PO/COBOE is looking to contact all the inactive ones.
I've appreciated all the thoughts on this thread and the couple others I started this week. Lots of good points and ideas.
leo, you said:
My son decided a while back not to come anymore and moved to a nearby town , and the COBOE wanted to make an announcement he was no longer a publisher . Is this normal practice ?
First off...was he baptized?
If he was, I guess it depends on how vocal your son was about not going anymore. If he made statements to friends that he didn't want part of the religion, then they could take that as a sign of disossociating himself. You don't always have to write a letter or make a definitive statement. They can get you by your 'actions'. If they determine that you're a threat then, by your actions, you have disassociated yourself and they'll make the announcement, which of course tells everyone in the congregation to treat you as a DFd person.
If he wasn't baptized, then your terminology sounds like the elder wanted to announce him as no longer a publisher. If a person wasn't baptized and they either left or were no longer considered 'good association' then they can announce that the unbatized person is no longer considered a publisher.
Of course that was back when I was in....it may have changed since then.