Thanks for all the replies ! My son responded to his mom late last night sending her an E-mail which I will post on a different thread within 30 minutes or so. I think you will enjoy it immensely. First I'll answer your replies. Thanks again.
SOONER7C- I think I was shaking my head in anger after I read what my ex-wife sent my son. She's a total mind controlled moron.
TROUBLED MIND- Yes, my ex was and continues to be a master BS artist.
BABA YAGA- I felt that was an extremely mean thing for my ex-wife to say that my son is a " puppet of Satan in this dirty system of things. " Weird.
SCOTT 77- Thanks for the suggestions. My ex-wife is totally and thoroughly mind controlled by the cult. She is so delusional about even being AWARE of the pain she inflicts on others when using statements dissing my son's song. My son wrote her an E-mail which I'll be posting shortly .
ASILENTONE- I agree, good suggestions.
BOBLD- I agree my son's JW mom is brainwashed, more accurately totally mind controlled and like you stated she is SO controlled that way that she can't even see the WT society is using HER as a puppet. None of these witnesses see it.
JAMIEBOWERS- That is great that your aunt stood up on your behalf to your JW mom telling her how happy you and your hubby are ! Awesome. It is true- witnesses can't handle the fact that our lives are going very smoothly outside the cult. I think it causes THEM to doubt.
COGNIZANT DISSENDENT- It is so crazy and hypocritical of your ex-husband to point the finger at your son for being bad association when he and his lady friend committed adultery. But isn't that just like witnesses ? They are aware of sins other people do outside themselves personally - but don't take the time to see they are even worse many times ! Very typical. I'm glad you are there for your son my friend to love and support him for who he is with unconditional acceptance. Right on. It's the way ALL parents should be.
GLTIREBITER- Indeed, my ex-wife does believe ALL the crud coming down from the WT society and GB. I feel sad that she allows it to cloud her unconditional love towards my son. She is the one really losing out as my son is an awesome human being ! Wait till you read the letter he sent her last night.
SCOTTIEBEAR7- Your ex-wife and mine might have been twins ! I just think there are a lot of " mother superior " judgmental types running around like loose cannons making everyone's lives miserable actually. Especially their own adult childrens lives.
AGUEST- I think you will enjoy reading the E-mail my son sent his mother last night. I'll be posting a new thread on it. Pretty long and involved to put on this thread. Deserves it's own topic. Thanks for the advice. My son does feel sorry for his mom. He understands she is cult mind controlled. So he tempers his comments in his letter.
NUGGET- I see it as my son's mom missing him too- but at the same time she wants to control HOW the relationship proceeds with only " conditional " love and concern. She totally dissed his gardening ventures by saying it's not that important, and totally dissed his music he has wrote and performed by saying it's rebellious. Like you said a simple, " I love you son " with no other conditions would be kind and I'm sure appreciated more by my son.
HEAVEN- Indeed , I know you have experience in this arena my friend. I've read many of your experiences and admire how you have stood up to your parents in the past. I agree with you my son needs to state clear boundaries to his JW mom so she gets the message he won't tolerate being disrespected again. He sent her one last night. It was good. I think it will make her wet her pants. LOL !
MATTIEU- Isn't that the way it usuaqlly is ? The ones charging US with being rebellious are usually a hell of a lot more rebellious than we are ! Your MS brother and friends share porn ? Wow. Bet the elders would dig knowing that ! My son is smart and in a happy place, yes.
SNOOZY- You make a good point. Many of these witnesses like my ex-wife don't realize how hateful they sound. Because the cult mind control has de-senitized ALL emotions within them. They don't " feel " anymore- they are " programmed " like a computer how to think and react. Disgusting. Talk about a " dirty system " - the WT society has one !
CHICKPEA- Good point you make. That would be a good sarcastic E-mail for him to write his mom. I think you'll enjoy the one he wrote when I start the thread in about 30 minutes.
BLONDIE- I'm glad your mom doesn't have you E-mail address if she was as abusive as my ex-wife. It's just not worth being made upset like that.
JRK- Hey bud, how are you ? Yes- I'm VERY GLAD she is my ex-wife ! I'm still pulling out shards of glass out of my bum from the 19 years I spent with her !
MARY- If you knew what kind of high school student my ex-wife was- NO, she can't plant a f----ing plant without God telling her how to do it ! Very true that witnesses are trained to believe we will all implode into drugs, immorality, and delusion if we stop being JW's. So the fact that my son is doing well and is very happy is an eyesore to his mom
