Setting up trust – any suggestions on how to handle our JW daughter?

by Bonnie_Clyde 23 Replies latest jw friends

  • nelly136
    nelly136

    well its your money to do with as you wish,

    my logic is

    by cutting you off shes made it clear she wants nothing from you and she views you as the 'unclean thing', as her conscience doesnt allow her contact or mix with you it would really not be fair to burden her with your 'unclean' money either.

    its only in our contract to love our children unconditionally, its not in our contract to like their behaviour or reward them for said behaviour when it sucks.

  • Black Sheep
    Black Sheep

    Take a reverse mortgage. Spend it all on travel. Die broke and happy.

  • Bonnie_Clyde
    Bonnie_Clyde

    Flipper I want to let you know that I always enjoyed your posts and your insignt. I've noticed before that our circumstances are very similar--except you have two daughters instead of one in the cult, and I have two sons instead of one who got out.

  • lilyflor
    lilyflor

    I would throw the ball into her court, tell her your "about to do your papers and how she is planning on behaving in the future, because your understanding is that if she wants nothing to do with you then obviously your money is no good to her either, but of course you don't want to assume anything" and then let her decide.

    Lily

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